Are notes or info typed here private or available for view by any other members?
So far a lot of people received your posts.
Those are all laudable goals, so it’s all good. But if GF is also a forum member then you may need to bump her up a few notches in that list. 
Oops! Looks like the forum is public (read-only) even without a login… Better bump her up a few notches! 
All post on the forum are public. If you are looking to keep something private, I suggest making a document and uploading it to CrossClave.